I found a site that shows pictures of each step using the matarelli style tool.
The key to learn is to take a bare hook and tie on 30 or so on the shank. That's how you learn. Then just apply that on your fly.
I'm going to invest in one of the Rite bobbins. If you can adjust tension that sounds like a great thing. Especially with smaller threads. Seems to me like the different brands have different tensions.