Hi Doug! I'm in the same boat as you and YPSIFLY as far as being self taught beyond the basics. My Dad isn't a trout/salmon fisherman, but he did an excellent job of showing me the basics of warm water fishing. He also taught me and helped coach me when I played baseball in school and I consider that invaluable. It's a shame when you have to deal with a situation as you mentioned as far as coaching goes. Personally, I will be more more concerned with my childs development of character than whether or not she becomes a major league athelete. And character determines success as far as I can tell.
Take care...Sid
Take care...Sid