View Full Version : Today I lost my best friend, my mate ,my wife
eddiejohn4
11-20-2007, 05:14 AM
My wife of thirty three years passed on this morning at 2:30. I lost my best friend. Carrie stuck by me though more trouble and hard times then I care to remember. She was responsible for allowing me to mature into who I am today.
This will be my last post for awhile as what do I have to post about anymore. I appoligize for my ranting at times. Please remember to cherish what you have , who travels the road with you, the blessing to be born an american.
To Carrie, God bless you sweetheart, thanks for everything , Semper Fi
Love Eddie
Westlakedrive
11-20-2007, 05:31 AM
Sorry to hear that.
Prayers sent.
PrtyMolusk
11-20-2007, 05:50 AM
Howdy-
My prayers and condolences upon your loss. :(
Come back when you're ready; we'll be here......
radiohead
11-20-2007, 06:01 AM
Very sorry for your loss. Don't be a stranger as many of our posts here can provide comic relief.
My deepest sympathies Eddie. We will be here when you need us.
Firecracker
11-20-2007, 06:14 AM
Oh I am so so sorry about youre Wife :(
I will put in you in Prayers. And come back when you FEEL up to it. You have MANY Friends here .....
coolbreeze69
11-20-2007, 06:40 AM
Sorry for your loss. May God bless you in these times. Try to rember all the great times for that would be her wish. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Chuck1
11-20-2007, 06:41 AM
Sorry for your your loss Eddie, Words cannot express.........
Ranger Ray
11-20-2007, 06:48 AM
Sorry to hear about your loss Eddie. Will keep you in our prayers.
Linda G.
11-20-2007, 07:06 AM
Deepest, deepest sympathies. Please don't give up on this site during your grief, or any other board you have visited, because you will have friends you never realized you had that can help you through the hard times.
Again, deepest condolences.
kingfisher 11
11-20-2007, 07:08 AM
Very sorry to hear of your loss.
Ninja
11-20-2007, 07:10 AM
May God comfort you and your family.
Jackster1
11-20-2007, 07:12 AM
God bless the both of you, Eddie.
PencilPlugger
11-20-2007, 07:24 AM
Sorry for your loss.
Michael Wagner
11-20-2007, 07:25 AM
Very Sorry, God bless and comfort your family
skulldugary
11-20-2007, 07:25 AM
So very sorry to hear of your loss Eddie.My condolences to you and your family.
NEMichsportsman
11-20-2007, 07:28 AM
Sorry for your loss!
You will be in our prayers.
sullyxlh
11-20-2007, 07:29 AM
Sorry for your loss Eddie,Hang in there.........
2PawsRiver
11-20-2007, 07:59 AM
Prayers sent.
Wetlandhunter
11-20-2007, 08:00 AM
Sorry to hear that.May God bless ya and your family.
john warren
11-20-2007, 08:05 AM
i can not even imagine that pain. sorry for your loss.My wife of thirty three years passed on this morning at 2:30. I lost my best friend. Carrie stuck by me though more trouble and hard times then I care to remember. She was responsible for allowing me to mature into who I am today.
This will be my last post for awhile as what do I have to post about anymore. I appoligize for my ranting at times. Please remember to cherish what you have , who travels the road with you, the blessing to be born an american.
To Carrie, God bless you sweetheart, thanks for everything , Semper Fi
Love Eddie
ScavengerMan
11-20-2007, 08:22 AM
So very, very sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless and sustain you through this difficult transition.
DaveW731
11-20-2007, 09:12 AM
Eddie:
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers and in my thoughts. May God sustain you, friends and family comfort you.
MuskyDan
11-20-2007, 09:19 AM
sorry for your loss
deepwoods
11-20-2007, 09:21 AM
My sincerest condolences. Prayers sent to help comfort your families grief.
Eddie - Our prayers for your stength and guidance at the most terrible of times, my our Lord watch over you and guide you -
If there is anything we can do - just holler -
My deepest sympathy -
ferg....
spiritofthewild_06
11-20-2007, 09:29 AM
My deepest sympathies for you and your family, you will be in our prayers.
STEINFISHSKI
11-20-2007, 09:36 AM
My deepest sympathies Eddie. We will be here when you need us. Prayers sent for you and your family.
You and your family will be in our prayers.
Thunderhead
11-20-2007, 09:52 AM
My God Eddie. I can't even imagine what your going thru.
I'm so very, very sorry for the loss of your wife my friend.
After things start to settle down, and trust me when I say that they will, if you feel like talking, or comming up and spending some time in camp, or just sitting around a campfire, please, do not hesitate to shoot me a PM.
You need to keep your faith in the Lord Eddie, now more than ever.
You are in our prayers...........
Ebowhunter
11-20-2007, 09:56 AM
Bless you my friend. Take all the time you need.
michigandeerslayer
11-20-2007, 09:58 AM
Eddie
Im so sorry to here of your loss My prayers go out to you
BoonDog
11-20-2007, 09:59 AM
Eddie - I am deeply sorry for your loss. I have enjoyed your posts and hope you will again join us after you feel you are ready. My prayers are with you...
Roger
wyldkat49766
11-20-2007, 10:25 AM
Im sorry for your loss.
GWPguy
11-20-2007, 11:00 AM
My deepest sympathy
Reel_Screamer86
11-20-2007, 11:24 AM
Prayers sent, sorry for your loss
fishwitch44
11-20-2007, 11:35 AM
Our deepest sympathy to you.
twohats
11-20-2007, 11:51 AM
So sorry. Prayers sent
Eddie,
I echo the sentiments of many here. I'm very sorry for your loss, and you'll be in my prayers.
Jeff
RichP
11-20-2007, 12:53 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss Eddie. Deepest sympathies.
Jigster
11-20-2007, 12:54 PM
We share your pain Eddy. Hang in there man. You'll never get OVER it
but you can get THROUGH it! Keep in touch pal, sometimes the goofy crap
in here can take your mind off things for even a little while. Even just lurking without posting make you realize that you are Part of this family also!
God Bless you Brother
Jigster
My deepest sympathies,sorry for your loss
Frantz
11-20-2007, 03:44 PM
I met Eddie and Carrie this past spring at an outing, and shortly after meeting them both, considered them as friends, people I could trust and care about.
I will not go into detail, but Carrie has struggled most her life and that struggle ended early this morning. I know from the short time I have known them both, they are honest, decent people who care about others and cared a lot about each other. Being around them and listening to them go back and forth, you saw a long and devoted love, yet it was as though you were listening to a fresh young couple the way they nurtured each other. A blind man in the room with them would probably comment that they were a couple of silly kids in love.
Eddie, I am sorry for your loss. Carrie was a wonderful lady and I know that I am honored to have had the opportunity to get to know her. My ehart goes out to you and Craig during this challenging time.
Fishndude
11-20-2007, 03:46 PM
Condolences - sorry to hear about your loss. She sounds like a very special woman; and you were blessed to have 33 great years together.
east bay ed
11-20-2007, 04:00 PM
my deepest sympathy and we will pray for you.
RunMich
11-20-2007, 04:36 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. God bless !!
dongiese
11-20-2007, 04:47 PM
Ed I'm so sorry,
Nothing we say here will help. if you or craig need anything please give me a call.
Gone Fishing
11-20-2007, 05:01 PM
I can't even imagine, my sincere condolences
sweatyspartan
11-20-2007, 05:04 PM
God Bless...
Wellston
11-20-2007, 05:24 PM
My wife of thirty three years passed on this morning at 2:30. I lost my best friend.
eddiejohn4
I've been married over 34 years and cannot imagine what it would be like without my wife. We were married young and grew up together. Myself more than her. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Sometimes we take people for granted until their gone. My deepest sympathy.
Jim
Socks
11-20-2007, 05:28 PM
I can't imagine your pain. You have my deepest condolences.
Joe
Swamp Monster
11-20-2007, 05:36 PM
My sincerest condolences Eddie. My father lost his wife of 20 years a few months ago (my stepmother) Watching my father deal with this has not been an easy thing to stomach. I wish I had some words of wisdom that could ease your pain but the honest truth is that nothing I or anybody else can say can make it right. You got people here on this site that are in your corner and will be there for support when the time comes......and that time will come. Ain't no shame in reaching out when your ready. Things are going to be crazy the next few days, weeks, and months but that support will still be here. God bless.
glnmiller
11-20-2007, 05:37 PM
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
tedshunter
11-20-2007, 07:35 PM
I send my prayers to you and your family.I am very very sorry to hear about your loss.You hang in there and like the others said we will all be here when you are ready to come back.
cointoss
11-20-2007, 09:18 PM
I am deeply saddened in you and your family's loss. We are praying for you and your family.
eddiejohn4
11-21-2007, 08:05 AM
Thank you all for thinking of us at this time. I am not too functional at this time, as Carrie was everything to me.I always thought I would go first, at least that was my wish. I know there are many that need prayers also, and as I am not up to posting at this time,I send all my prayers to those that need them, and thank them for thiers.
Eddie
RIVER LADY
11-21-2007, 09:02 AM
Eddie there are no words anyone can say to ease your sarrow.
God bless you and your family.
Eddie you may not be too functional right now, however in time you will be. Carrie will always be in you heart and soul and it will be her love she gave you over the years that will give you the strength to carry on. Hang in there Eddie and know her love is with you always, as she is holding yours until you are together again.
We are here for you when you need us. Come to us when you are ready.
God bless.
7iron
11-21-2007, 02:48 PM
Regards!
Wolf_Dancer34
11-22-2007, 06:39 PM
Eddie I am so sorry to hear that Carrie passed away...my heart breaks for you and Craig. Take all the time you need to feel the weight of you loss. I so enjoyed you and Carrie this spring at your get together and was looking forward to getting together again at some point in the future. Know that you and your family are in my prayers. If you need anything at all please dont hesitate to call: 231/206/5837
Catherine and family
ScottSki
11-22-2007, 09:15 PM
I'm sorry for your loss as well. My setter died a month ago in my arms, I understand.
The Bible claims if you ask of it, you can see your pet in paridise, give it a try, it won't hurt.
I'm sure you gave your dog a great life!
UBDSLO1
11-22-2007, 10:05 PM
sorry for your loss. :sad:
MarineBuckHunter
11-23-2007, 02:40 AM
Sorry for your loss.... my deepest sympathy.
I pray that you will find the peace that passes all understanding.
tedshunter
11-23-2007, 07:43 AM
I'm sorry for your loss as well. My setter died a month ago in my arms, I understand.
The Bible claims if you ask of it, you can see your pet in paridise, give it a try, it won't hurt.
I'm sure you gave your dog a great life!
Scott,his wife passed not his dog. you must of miss the part that he was with his wife for 33 years.
roger23
11-23-2007, 08:53 AM
My Deepest Symphony.
I was given this 22 years ago when I lost my son,I read it often when I am down and need a lift,as many have said we can't imagine your loss,there will be many good days ,and equal number of bad ones,some days you will want to be left alone others you will want to be with friends.people will try to be kind and talk to you and ask many questions ,don't be afraid to say you don't feel like talking, just don't isolate your self be with friends and family
Roger
Footsteps In The Sand
Footsteps In The Sand
One night a man had a dream.He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the LORD.Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand:one belonging to him, and the other to the LORD.When the last scene of his life flashed before himhe looked back, at the footprints in the sand.He noticed that many times along the path of his lifethere was only one set of footprints.He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times of his life.This really bothered him and he questioned the LORD about it:"LORD, you said that once I decided to follow you,you'd walk with me all the way.But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my lifethere is only one set of footprints.I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me."The LORD replied:"My son, My precious child, I love you and I would never leave you.During your times of trial and suffering,when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."- Author Unknown
Split Shot
11-23-2007, 09:11 AM
So sorry Eddie.
Been with my girl for 30+yrs too. Just can't comprehend your pain right now. Prayers sent.
Take care, Al
michigandeerslayer
11-23-2007, 10:39 AM
Does any one know the details of the funeral, I would Like to go pay my respects
Backwoods-Savage
11-23-2007, 12:28 PM
Dear God, I can not imagine anything worse that what you must be going through right now. Our hearts go out to you and the rest of your family. Prayers already sent.
What would your wife want you to do now? Do it for her and yourself.
reddog719
11-23-2007, 01:11 PM
So very sorry to hear what a terriable thing you are in my prayers
Mickey Finn
11-23-2007, 01:42 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.
ED sorry to here of your loss, I know words at this time are difficult to come
up with, but know my prayer's are with you and family. Our God has promished that one day we will see our loved ones again, all the tears
and pain will be wiped away. ED thanks for sharing with us your request,
take care my friend.
Tru-N-Sea
11-24-2007, 11:37 AM
My condolences. I can't fathom what you must be feeling. Prayers sent.
Captn---
Due51
11-24-2007, 11:47 AM
You are in my prayers.
I'm sorry for your loss. When the time is right, you'll be back with us but until then, keep the faith.
kbkrause
11-26-2007, 07:02 PM
God bless.
jampg
11-26-2007, 08:40 PM
I am very sorry about your loss. We will pray for you. Please keep us in mind for if you need any help of any kind you can call on me. Be strong and let us know how you are doing. Take care.
SleePac
11-28-2007, 07:36 AM
Eddie - Your in my thoughts and prayers.
itchn2fish
11-28-2007, 02:45 PM
Eddie, I have tried to find some words that would help for several days now. I should be well-equipped to help, as I lost my wife over two years ago, & I have searched my mind to think of what I could share. Each time I start to type something, such a rush of emotion overcomes me, that I have to cancel my reply. Greiving comes in various stages, for sure, and you may still be in shock, such stress you must be experiencing. It's like losing half of your very being.
But you will find what you are made of as you dig down real deep within yourself and find a way to go on, and you will find a way, my friend, you must. You will do it in your own way, everyone is differant. If you're beating yourself up about things you shoulda/woulda/coulda done differantly, stop it, you will work through that too, let it be. I hope that some comfort finds you soon that can ease your anguish.
vBulletin® v3.7.2, Copyright ©2000-2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.